A
man's heart deviseth his way: but the Lord directeth his steps.
(Proverbs 16:9 KJV)
Goal as defined by Webster’s Dictionary of 1828 is: “The end or final purpose; the end to which a design tends, or which a person aims to reach or accomplish.”[1] Goal is a noun indicting a stopping point, as in a race or even a starting point.[2] For the purposes of this post, I will be considering the word goal from the first sentence in this paragraph.
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We are nearing the end of
the third week of this year. The year is
still fresh and new—full of possibilities.
Each New Year’s Day we receive a fresh start from God. Of course, that is true of every day the Lord
gives us, especially if we are walking in relationship with Him.
At some point in the last
few years I have written about goals on this blog (please see Goals, Goals 2016). This post is utilizing
some material (with editing) from both of those posts, as well as some new
thoughts. Nevertheless, I encourage you
to read what I shared the last two years; it may be helpful for you as you plan
for this year.
The freshness of a new year
beckons us to try new things, make changes in our lives, and accomplish a list
of goals. When we have our eyes on God,
our goals should lead us ever closer to Him, rather than away from Him. Furthermore, our goals should be healthy ones
too—physically, spiritually, emotionally, and psychologically. It is good to keep in mind that when we set
goals they should be ones that do not require the cooperation of others—those goals
have a high failure rate, for obvious reasons!
Many people make resolutions at the beginning of the year, abandoning
them a few hours, days, or weeks later. Why? Perhaps the goals are far too ambitious, too
vague, or require the cooperation of others.
New goals tend to require new habits to form—something that takes time
and dedication to achieve.
The greatest commitment we can make as Christians is to grow and develop
in a positive direction in our faith.
Taking time for silent meditation of our hearts and coming into the
presence of God. Doing this, along with
dedication will help us meet the other goals we may set for ourselves.
The
preparations of the heart in man, and the answer of the tongue, is from the Lord.
(Proverbs 16:1 KJV)
It is my heart’s sincere
desire that you are setting aside time in your daily schedule to commune with God
and that you are growing in your relationship with Him. God loves you so much and desires nothing
more than a relationship with you. He
loves you so much, in fact, He’s crazy about you! Keeping your eyes on the goal (prize), will
help you stay focused and not get off track.
A word of caution: be kind to
yourself, realizing that some days or weeks will not be so great; things will
go wrong—give yourself the grace you deserve—give yourself the grace you would
give to others. Encourage yourself over
how far you have come.
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For the third year I have
established goals for myself—these goals are fairly similar to the previous two
years with a few tweaks. For the second
year, I developed two lists of goals: general
and spiritual—there is a healthy degree of overlap between the two lists, which
is to be expected. Once again, the goals
are quite substantial (clearly I have learned little the last two years or I am
trying to be an overachiever or punish myself).
Even in the face of my substantial goals, I see the need for some time
to simply be, to have some “margin”
or “white-space” to allow God to work, and for me to rest. (I wrote a bit more about this concept last
year in my post on goals [see the link the third paragraph].)
However, I sense this year
will be different. Different in that I
am using a life planner to supplement what I am already doing. Additionally, two of my friends easily
volunteered to hold me accountable to my goals.
My thoughts are to do a quick evaluation of how I am doing at the end of
each month and do a more thorough evaluation quarterly (March 1, June 1,
September 1, and December 1). Perhaps
evaluating how you are doing on your goals will be helpful for you as well?
Let thine eyes
look right on, and let thine eyelids look straight before thee.
Ponder the path of
thy feet, and let all thy ways be established.
Turn not to the
right hand nor to the left: remove thy foot from evil.
(Proverbs 4:25-27 KJV)
Discipline and accountability
are key ingredients in goal setting and in achieving those goals. The life planner has built in times to assess
how I am doing with my goals; as I mentioned above, I plan to do a bit more than
the life planner directs me to do, which is likely a positive idea.
In the near future, may be
even next week, I plan to share my word for the year. In my mind, the word will guide and inform
how I pursue my goals. In my thought
processes I am beginning to see how my word for the year will “make or break”
how I pursue my goals or do not pursue my goals. Moreover, it will also guide my walk with the
Lord. How is that for a “teaser”?
Setting goals, having dreams
serve to give us a purpose in life.
Waking up each day with a sense of excitement, expectation, and a purpose
makes it easier to get out of bed and get going on the day, especially when we
are fighting against the urge to stay in bed with the cover over our heads!
My most sincere desire is that
you have reserved, set aside time each day to be alone with the Lord in prayer,
worship, and reading the Word. There is
no substitute for this time with the Lord.
Try making a goal to spend a certain time frame with the Lord (even
write it in your planner)—keep it as you would any other appointment. I pray that you will discover, as I have, how
precious this time is and make the necessary effort to tenaciously guard
it.
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God-given goals will make an
impact, not only on us but on those around us as well. May God bless you with the drive and
dedication to achieve your goals. Be
sure to encourage those around you too!
Please join with me in
prayer:
Dear Lord of All, thank You
for the fresh start that seems so readily apparent at the start of the year;
remind us though, how each day is a fresh start and gift from You. Although we struggle at times, we know we
need to surrender our goals and the whole of our lives to You—help us to surrender. Guide us through the discernment process of
goal setting, so that our goals would be given by You for our growth and development. Guard us from losing sight of what really
matters—our relationship with You. As
always, may our greatest goal be that of being rightly related to You, having
our names in the Lamb’s Book of Life, so that we can enjoy You and Heaven for
all eternity. In Jesus’ Name, we
pray. Amen.
From My Heart to Yours,
Kim
