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Friday, August 4, 2017

Letting Jesus Remove the Clutter: Revisited


For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace...  
(1 Corinthians 14:33 KJV)

Another note (summer edition):  Yes, I am sharing a post that I shared earlier this year, because I felt some nudging through the Holy Spirit to share this post this week.  My hunch is someone “needs” to read this.  It seems somewhat appropriate as I work on sorting through information for the Holy Spirit series—some might call it clutter—I call it research.  Additionally, I am in research mode for a sub-topic for my Sunday school teaching responsibilities (spiritual gifts a sub-topic of sorts as we consider the bigger topic of Heaven).  Just this week, I did a small amount of purging of “stuff” that simply needed to go into the garbage.  Honestly, it is freeing once the anxiety goes away.    

Note: This post is from January 29, 2016.  As I was praying and preparing this week, I felt the Lord impress on me to post this message again (possibly with some editing).  Moreover, I am feeling some “nudges” to develop more posts with this theme.  Just know that I am “preaching” to myself as much as I am to those who read this post!

Many people struggle with clutter in their lives:  inner and outer.  I face struggles in this area, yet there is a degree of order to the “mess” (in other words, I can almost always find what I am looking for).  There may be a method to my madness…or not!  At the same time, I realize that God likely has a different perspective about my clutter.


Image from Pixabay


Holding on to objects—whatever they may be—of our past, a past the Lord has led us away from is likely far more counterproductive than we realize.  Whether or not we realize it, we are weighed down, hampered, kept from the future that awaits us; the future that is created especially for us by Jesus our Savior and Lord.  This is the future where we will find a happiness and a contentment that comes from being where we are needed and doing the things the world most needs us to do.  This reminds me of a quote from Frederick Buechner:  “The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.”[1]



Letting go of the “stuff” gives us freedom for the future—openness, space, margin for the Lord to work and for us to work too.  When we are free of this “stuff”, perhaps “stuff” that haunts us, we can become the person we were meant to be all along!  All this “stuff” that we think we need only distracts and hinders us (this is at least partially true for me). 
To be sure, the “stuff” is not always bad; it may have served a good and worthy purpose in the past.  If the “stuff” is truly a thing of the past; a past that is no longer the path God wants you walking down, why cling to it, as if it has the power to save?  This is what I have talked to myself about in the past and even just this week (as of the writing of this post in January 2016).  At the point God made it clear to me that the path I was on was not the correct one, I was so overwhelmed that it did not occur to me to start parting ways with the objects that had occupied hours of my life for many years, and stuff that I had spent a sizable amount of money to acquire.
Over the past several years, the Lord has been freeing me more and more of the files of paper, projects that were a significant part of my past.  Since the beginning of the year (2016) I have gotten back to work—it is work but it goes amazingly fast.  It is also completely overwhelming at times; mostly it feels great!  Now in 2017, I am beginning to see the deep need for even more work in this area. 

Image from Pixabay


Our God is a God of order (as can be seen the Scripture above).  He created order.  Therefore, order pleases Him—order in our lives, order in our churches—makes a difference, a difference that might just makes others take note.  God brings order to our disorder, if we allow Him.  As we depend on Him to remove the inner and outer “clutter” we find freedom.  This freedom gives us the necessary space to think, to create, and to simply live. 

Jesus also addressed this in His Sermon on the Mount:  Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal:  But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal:  For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also” (Matthew 6:19-21 KJV). 

Where are you storing up treasures? 
I am working towards an increasing desire to store up treasures—the most important treasures—in Heaven; a work that is in progress.  These are the treasures we should all desire.
In some way, releasing all this stuff, the baggage of the past—tangible objects and people may well be a type of “pruning” (see John 15).  I invite you to check the archives of the blog for some posts from last year on abiding (and pruning).
We can depend on God to help us in our weakness.  He is kind and gentle with us, yet He does not allow us to stay—growth, change happens and is expected.  I am thinking my releasing of this “stuff” will take me places I have never dreamed possible.

What do you need to do with the “clutter” in your life?

How is Jesus helping you with the “clutter” in your life?

Please join with me in prayer:
Dear Lord of Order, We confess that our lives are out of order; we need your help in regaining order.  Enable us to see our living and working spaces with Your eyes, so that we can address the piles of “stuff” that weigh us down.  Likewise, we need Your love, grace, and power to clear away our inner “clutter”, providing the necessary space for You to do Your creative work within us.  Remind us to be loving, caring, and gentle with others who struggle, as well as with ourselves.  In Jesus’ Name, we pray.  Amen.

From My Heart to Yours,

Kim

Friday, February 10, 2017

Letting Jesus Remove the Clutter

For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace...  
(1 Corinthians 14:33 KJV)

Note: This post is from January 29, 2016.  As I was praying and preparing this week, I felt the Lord impress on me to post this message again (possibly with some editing).  Moreover, I am feeling some “nudges” to develop more posts with this theme.  Just know that I am “preaching” to myself as much as I am to those who read this post!

Many people struggle with clutter in their lives:  inner and outer.  I face struggles in this area, yet there is a degree of order to the “mess” (in other words, I can almost always find what I am looking for).  There may be a method to my madness…or not!  At the same time, I realize that God likely has a different perspective about my clutter.


Image from Pixabay

Holding on to objects—whatever they may be—of our past, a past the Lord has led us away from is likely far more counterproductive than we realize.  Whether or not we realize it, we are weighed down, hampered, kept from the future that awaits us; the future that is created especially for us by Jesus our Savior and Lord.  This is the future where we will find a happiness and a contentment that comes from being where we are needed and doing the things the world most needs us to do.  This reminds me of a quote from Frederick Buechner:  “The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.”[1] {Note: This paragraph looks much different in Blogger's editor than it does here.  I cannot figure out how to change it.}

Letting go of the “stuff” gives us freedom for the future—openness, space, margin for the Lord to work and for us to work too.  When we are free of this “stuff”, perhaps “stuff” that haunts us, we can become the person we were meant to be all along!  All this “stuff” that we think we need only distracts and hinders us (this is at least partially true for me). 

To be sure, the “stuff” is not always bad; it may have served a good and worthy purpose in the past.  If the “stuff” is truly a thing of the past; a past that is no longer the path God wants you walking down, why cling to it, as if it has the power to save?  This is what I have talked to myself about in the past and even just this week (as of the writing of this post in January 2016).  At the point God made it clear to me that the path I was on was not the correct one, I was so overwhelmed that it did not occur to me to start parting ways with the objects that had occupied hours of my life for many years, and stuff that I had spent a sizable amount of money to acquire.
Over the past several years, the Lord has been freeing me more and more of the files of paper, projects that were a significant part of my past.  Since the beginning of the year (2016) I have gotten back to work—it is work but it goes amazingly fast.  It is also completely overwhelming at times; mostly it feels great!  Now in 2017, I am beginning to see the deep need for even more work in this area. 



Image from Pixabay

Our God is a God of order (as can be seen the Scripture above).  He created order.  Therefore, order pleases Him—order in our lives, order in our churches—makes a difference, a difference that might just makes others take note.  God brings order to our disorder, if we allow Him.  As we depend on Him to remove the inner and outer “clutter” we find freedom.  This freedom gives us the necessary space to think, to create, and to simply live. 
Jesus also addressed this in His Sermon on the Mount:  Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal:  But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal:  For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also” (Matthew 6:19-21 KJV). 
Where are you storing up treasures? 
I am working towards an increasing desire to store up treasures—the most important treasures—in heaven; a work that is in progress.  These are the treasures we should all desire.
In some way, releasing all this stuff, the baggage of the past—tangible objects and people may well be a type of “pruning” (see John 15).  I invite you to check the archives of the blog for some posts from last year on abiding (and pruning).
We can depend on God to help us in our weakness.  He is kind and gentle with us, yet He does not allow us to stay—growth, change happens and is expected.  I am thinking my releasing of this “stuff” will take me places I have never dreamed possible.
What do you need to do with the “clutter” in your life?
How is Jesus helping you with the “clutter” in your life?
Please join with me in prayer:
Dear Lord of Order, We confess that our lives are out of order; we need your help in regaining order.  Enable us to see our living and working spaces with Your eyes, so that we can address the piles of “stuff” that weigh us down.  Likewise, we need Your love, grace, and power to clear away our inner “clutter”, providing the necessary space for You to do Your creative work within us.  Remind us to be loving, caring, and gentle with others who struggle, as well as with ourselves.  In Jesus’ Name, we pray.  Amen.

From My Heart to Yours,

Kim
Note:  Be watching for a possible post on Tuesday, February 14.

Wednesday, February 17, 2016

Rend Your Hearts: The Lenten Journey Continues



Therefore also now, saith the Lord, turn ye even to me with all your heart, and with fasting, and with weeping, and with mourning:   And rend your heart, and not your garments, and turn unto the Lord your God: for he is gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness, and repenteth him of the evil.  (Joel 2:12-13 KJV)


From https://pixabay.com/static/uploads/photo/2015/02/18/09/51/in-640517_960_720.jpg

Today, I would like to continue pondering Ash Wednesday and the season of Lent, in our journey to the celebration of Easter—what Jesus did for us in His suffering, death, and resurrection.  Most of what follows is an edited and slightly abridged version of a sermon I developed in 2008.  To read the other posts in this series please click here:  “Ash Wednesday” and “Rend Your Hearts:  The Journey Continues”.  

In the reading from Joel, we can see once again where God invites (the initiative is always with God) us to return to Him.  In fact, God longs for our return to Him.  The gates of repentance are always open; therefore, we have no reason to wait until a special day on the church calendar or even for a church service!  We should always confess of our sins quickly to restore our relationship with God.  We come to God just as we are—no matter how dirty that may be—He cleans us in a way that truly cleans us—our efforts to clean ourselves up is futile!

As we repentantly turn (or return) to God, rending our hearts, our lives and changed—completely reoriented.  We find that we must completely reorient our lives when we turn to God—the choices we make will change too.  It is no longer so much about what we want; rather it is about what God wants.  His desires become our desires.  

When we desire what God desires, we will find peace and joy and rest.  Not only that, but we will also be working out of God’s strength and not our own—in so doing  we will find (perhaps much to our surprise) gifts, skills, and abilities that we did not know we had obtained.  We also discover that we desire to obey God, no matter the cost.


From http://www.blc-denver2.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/2014-Lent-Cross.png 

The obedience God desires costs us in some way; it also costs others who our in our life.  What are the costs?  Our behaviors change—how we spend time, how we spend money, and who we spend time with—therefore, our relationships with others change.  If nothing else, people will not understand and in that lack of understanding, they may treat us in less than kind ways. This cost extends to confessing our sins—repenting—establishing a relationship with the Lord each day. 

However, we must use care and always remember that an action on our part does not obligate God’s sanction.  God, being God is never obligated to His creation, nor does He ever owe us anything.  Yet He is always gracious to our cries for help and deliverance.  Yes, God blesses His children (much more than we deserve), however, we cannot just assume He will and then go off in a corner and pout like a three year old if He chooses to not give us what we want when we want it!


From http://livegreaterfoundation.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/lent.png 


Yes, God will indeed forgive our sins when we confess to Him with a truly repentant heart.  However, it is important to note that while God has forgiven us and remembers our sin no more; we still have to live with the consequences of our sins.  For example, take a person who was an alcoholic or a drug addict and has come to the Lord; receiving forgiveness of his/her sins and is truly living a new life as a brother/sister in Christ, who no longer lives life as before—the alcohol and drugs are a thing of the past.  Although he/she is regenerated, he/she has to deal with the health or perhaps legal consequences of the old lifestyle.

It is clear there is much to ponder when it comes to rending our hearts and truly turning to the Lord for forgiveness.  Change will happen—the results will change not only our life but also the lives of others around us.  This is not simply a one time thing but a work that happens over time.  Yes, we are saved in an instant—a moment in time.  The development of our new life in Christ takes years—coming to completion in heaven. 

As we continue our journey through Lent and prepare our hearts to celebrate Easter, I encourage you to continue to keep your heart soft, tender, and open to God’s thorough searching and cleansing process.  No matter how it may feel now; God’s work is for your good.



From http://live-from-the-heart.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/ashes-heart.jpg 

How have you obeyed God; what was the cost?

Please join with me in prayer:

Gracious and Loving God, thank You for keeping open the gates of repentance. Remind us to search our hearts each day for sins we need to confess.  Reveal to us our “pet” sins or those “hidden” sins that we try to ignore or tell ourselves are not a real sin or not a big deal and confess those, as well.  Help us to see sin from Your perspective, not ours.  Thank You for Your forgiveness and the changes that it affects in us.  Guide us to desire nothing more than to live a life that is pleasing to You.  In Jesus’ Name we pray.  Amen.

From My Heart to Yours,

Kim

Friday, February 12, 2016

Rend Your Hearts: The Journey Continues


Therefore also now, saith the Lord, turn ye even to me with all your heart, and with fasting, and with weeping, and with mourning:   And rend your heart, and not your garments, and turn unto the Lord your God: for he is gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness, and repenteth him of the evil.  (Joel 2:12-13 KJV)

From https://pixabay.com/static/uploads/photo/2015/02/18/09/51/in-640517_960_720.jpg

Today, we continue to consider Ash Wednesday and the season of Lent, as we prepare to celebrate Easter—what Jesus did for us in His suffering, death, and resurrection.  Most of what follows is an edited and slightly abridged version of a sermon I developed in 2008.  To read the first post from Wednesday, please click on “Ash Wednesday” in the first line of this paragraph. 

Ash Wednesday is a time to consider our mortality as well as a safe place to commune with God—allowing Him to search our hearts—confessing our sins or hurtful, unjust actions—as He shines the light of His precious Holy Spirit upon us.  God forgives us, when we humbly repent, may we accept His wonderful forgiveness and gift of a “new start”, during this time of preparing for Easter.    

From http://www.blc-denver2.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/2014-Lent-Cross.png

Therefore also now, saith the Lord, turn ye even to me with all your heart, and with fasting, and with weeping, and with mourning:   And rend your heart, and not your garments, and turn unto the Lord your God: for he is gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness, and repenteth him of the evil.  (Joel 2:12-13 KJV, emphasis mine)

The Old Testament prophet, Joel, states in verses 12-13 to return to God with all of your heart and to rend your heart and not your garments.  To me, returning to God with all your heart is to be totally in love—passionately in love with God and having the humility to admit that we are in dire need of forgiveness and that we cannot save ourselves.  We are so in love with God that nothing else matters; our eyes are on Him alone.  Our relationship with Him is our first priority.  Ideally, He should be the first person we think about when we wake-up and the last person we think about when we fall asleep. 

If we return to God with all of our heart, we admit our need for what He has, we also show our humility.  We know from 2 Chronicles 7:14 (KJV) that: “If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.”  God is ready and just to forgive us and to heal us.  Yet at the same time, we cannot return to God without rending our hearts.  After all, God is holy and due to His holiness, He cannot be around sin.  Yet, when we are truly humble and confess our sin, seeking forgiveness, He is quick to forgive. 


From  http://livegreaterfoundation.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/lent.png

Joel’s words should call us to action today, as we journey through Lent.  God wants us to grieve our sins but not so much in an outward way but in an inner way as we truly take stock of our inner life.  By rending our hearts, instead of our garments (in the OT rending garments was a sign of great grief and mourning) we are able to focus on what our hearts are telling us.  It also is done in the sanctity and privacy of an “inner room” or our “prayer closet”.  It is there that we can truly commune with God and receive our reward from Him much like the humble tax collector in contrast to the pious Pharisee (see Matthew 6:1-6). 

Therefore, I encourage you to use some quiet time during this season of Lent to allow God, the Holy Spirit to search you, to know you, and to try you—shining the light of His love and presence in your heart—pointing out to you your sinful, hurtful ways and a time for seeking forgiveness.  This taking stock should be done more than just during Lent; it should be done regularly…rather like cleaning house!

What is your heart telling you?

From http://live-from-the-heart.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/ashes-heart.jpg

Please join with me in prayer:

Forgiving and Loving God, We admit that we are sinful people in dire need of forgiveness.  We confess that we need Your forgiveness and Your healing touch in our hearts and lives.  During this season of preparation for Easter, guide us to open our hearts to Your spotlight searching out the sin, the yuck in our hearts and lives; allowing you to cleanse our hearts and spirits.  As we become aware of our sin, may we be quick to seek Your forgiveness through Jesus Christ.  Thank You for Your forgiveness that cleanses us and frees us to be Your people in an increasingly dark world.  In our freedom, guide us to speak healing words to those all around us who are in need of freedom found only in You.  In Jesus’ Name we pray.  Amen.

From My Heart to Yours,

Kim

Wednesday, February 10, 2016

Rend Your Hearts


Therefore also now, saith the Lord, turn ye even to me with all your heart, and with fasting, and with weeping, and with mourning:   And rend your heart, and not your garments, and turn unto the Lord your God: for he is gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness, and repenteth him of the evil.  (Joel 2:12-13 KJV)

From https://pixabay.com/static/uploads/photo/2015/02/18/09/51/in-640517_960_720.jpg 

Today (Wednesday, February 10, 2016), is Ash Wednesday—the beginning point of Lent—which is observed in some Protestant denominations, as well as the Catholic Church.  Lent is a time of preparation for Easter.  “Traditionally, it is a time when Christians re-examine their spiritual life and try to discern the quality of their relationship with God.  It is a time of deeper dedication to God and seeking ways in which we can help to further God’s kingdom on earth.”[1]  For more on Ash Wednesday please click here. 

During this time, some Christians choose to fast for a particular time or deny themselves a particular food or activity.  For some ideas on how to journey through this time, please see:  How can I observe Lent?

For a short video describing Lent and Ash Wednesday please click here: Ash Wednesday and Lent in two minutes

It takes humility to acknowledge this.  Just as Jesus was a humble servant; it takes humility on our part to acknowledge our need for a Savior and to confess and accept forgiveness for our sins.  “Ash Wednesday emphasizes a dual encounter: we confront our own mortality and confess our sin before God within the community of faith.”[2] 


From http://www.blc-denver2.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/2014-Lent-Cross.png

Lent is a time of preparation to journey to Jerusalem with Jesus and His appointment at the cross.  It is a time for us to consider our own life and death, acknowledging that we area mortal beings and will one day return to the dust from which we were created.  Acknowledging this should be a humbling experience—we are finite beings created for relationship with our Creator through His Son, Jesus Christ.  Our souls are restless until we are united with our Savior, Jesus. 

From http://livegreaterfoundation.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/lent.png

Trusting God for forgiveness—repenting of your sins and be completely cleansed from the inside out—“declutters” our heart, our inmost being.  Allowing the Holy Spirit to convict you of your sins is part of the process of preparing for Easter. 

Taking stock of our life and confessing our sins to God is something that needs to be done at times other than Easter; it is an every day thing.  The process, while important, can also be “messy” and a bit painful.  However, God is thorough and gentle in the process.  

Rend your heart; let God examine it.  Confess your sins before God and accept His wonderful forgiveness and mercy.  Remember that sin weighs us down; confession of sin frees us and lightens the weight that bogs us down.  There is no need to be depressed about what we have messed up or what we have done; it is time to experience the cleansing power of the blood of Jesus’ forgiveness.

What sins do you need to confess?   

From https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/3/3d/Crossofashes.jpg

Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.  Cast me not away from thy presence; and take not thy holy spirit from me.  Restore unto me the joy of thy salvation; and uphold me with thy free spirit.  
(Psalm 51:10-12 KJV)

From http://live-from-the-heart.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/ashes-heart.jpg


How are you journeying through Lent?

Please join with me in prayer:
 
Forgiving and Loving God, in humility we recognize that from dust we came and to dust we will return.  We return to You, turning from our wicked ways—confessing our sins—seeking Your forgiveness.  Thank You for forgiving our sins, for healing us, and for setting us free.  Assist us to accept Your forgiveness and live as people set free.  Create in us a clean heart—a heart fully and totally devoted to You.  In Jesus’ Name we pray.  Amen.

From My Heart to Yours,

Kim



[1] From Trinity United Methodist Church Newsletter, February 2016 (slightly edited)
[2] From The United Methodist Book of Worship (1992) pg. 321

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